If you are thinking been there done that… then continue reading. if not, well .. read it anyways because at some point of time you will be there.. Trust me..
Couple of days back, when I was talking to one of my friend I suddenly realized that ‘ Sometimes we find our self in the middle of nowhere; and some other times in the middle of nowhere, we find ourselves.’ So what if ( a big IF ) we were put into the positions, even the harsh ones by destiny/God/LIFE whatever we want to call it, because there is something there for us to learn.
Most of the times we are confused when we are supposed to decide. What then?
Decisions. Decisions, Decisions…
I am a poker player( A good one By the way 🙂 ). Making decisions is part and parcel of the game, in fact its the only controllable aspect of the game. The game has taught me many things in life like discipline, being rational, using my emotions to think rather than thinking with my emotions and most importantly it taught me to make the RIGHT decisions. When I say making right decisions, what I mean is : We must not do what makes us feel good, we must do what is right irrespective of how we feel. I am not telling not to have any emotions, after all where would we all be without emotions? its about how we deal with them and how we use them.  Also one important thing about decision is that (one wrong thing we all do) DO NOT look back. Success of a decision is not decided by what happens after we decide, did it succeed or failed, doesn’t matter. Success of any decision is based on did we decide correctly based on the information we had at the time of the decision. What happens later, doesn’t matter(it rhymes I know.)
Now, what if our decisions go wrong, all the time. Its a good and an important question. I have made a lot of wrong decisions. I think all of my bad decisions have taught me more than my good decisions. Many a times what we think of bad is not necessarily bad. ( Actually there is no such thing as good or bad. More on this topic for another post.) In life we need some bad decisions to led us to the right path. Just because we don’t realize it, doesn’t mean they are not necessary. Sometimes we have to be bad to be good. That’s the harsh reality. Think about it. In some situations, we would have forced ourselves to be bad to do the good thing. (Yeah you aren’t special everyone does that. Oh my dark sense of humor is showing up).
Anyways to summarize it don’t worry about the things we cant control. Concentrate on the things we can. Rest will take care of itself.
“Change can be scary, but you know what’s more scary? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving, and progressing.”-Mandy Hale
Another quote that comes to my mind now is that ‘ Funny thing with the world is that, Intelligent people are always in doubt and idiots are always cocksure about what they are doing.’
So the point I am trying to make is if you are in that stage of constant wondering, be happy because you are alive. Â Hence my point: LIVE LIFE ALIVE ALWAYS.